2008年9月8日星期一

驚驚~唔愛

呢句係恐龍仔最近經常講嘅嘢~


多到爸B反感, 公公婆婆爺爺嫲嫲問係邊個教嘅~


但係, 媽mimi覺得, 恐龍仔個樣似係真係受驚喇! 呢幾日, 已經唔可以自己一個响廳玩, 會跟出跟入, 行開半步就驚驚!


今朝, 爸B媽mi俾喊聲嘈醒~ 見到成面眼淚嘅小可憐~ 連抱抱都話驚驚!


工人話: 尋晚BB喊醒咗兩次呀!!!


hmm~ 咁点好呢? 媽mimi响櫃搵到d舊年買落嘅保嬰丹~ 或者, 買埋珍珠末?


 


今朝歺早歺食極都未完~ 恐龍仔唔鍾意食~~ 咁好啦, 落樓啦!


响lift度, 見到"新貿飯堂"個老板娘, 時間過得真係快, 恐龍仔17個月大喇! 呢隻膽小鬼唔敢同姨姨打招呼~ 去到平台, 媽mimi好溫柔咁話佢聽:要落地地行喇! 恐龍仔依然係嗰句: 唔愛~驚驚!


好啦~ 抱多一陣啦~


再試, 呢次真係放落地~ 恐龍變咗樹熊B! 佢抱住媽mimi隻腳~  媽mimi唯有蹲着同恐龍仔傾咗一輪~ 同佢講: 媽媽會拖實bb手~ 唔會走開~ 跟住講吓花講吓草~ 先開始拖手仔行行~~~


唉~ 希望係過度性啦! 点解會咁架??? 点樣可以令恐龍仔有番安全感呢???


2008年9月6日星期六

游早水

今日無去晨運~ 改咗去游水!


未落樓之前~ 有人唔著褲通屋走! 仲要著住一隻拖鞋咋! 小心d呀~




响泳池邊偷偷影咗d相, 但係, 攞咗爺爺部傻瓜機~ 不過, 呢部嘢唔係canon, 部電腦無software download落嚟呀!!!! 又read唔到張咭~


唉~


早知指定要部超舊canon傻瓜機!


 


上playgroup時, Sam Sir提我地:唔好俾恐龍仔四圍走~


又講起, 大仔班今期人少, 下一期可能無得玩呀~~  


 


媽mimi夜晚去咗MK, 行B&M 同埋Jusco$10 shop, 好多收獲呀!!!



媽mimi掛住同爸B傾電話, 返到屋企先知~收少咗錢呀!


就係呢set ABC chain (playgroup玩過!)


咁啱~Sam Sir都喺Jusco shopping~


佢見到媽mimi買左邊嗰set唔同質感嘅東西 (恐龍仔對呢樣嘢最弱!) 就話不如買埋d毛毛波波, 用嚟吹!


仲有就係練小肌肉嘅切切蔬果喇!


仲有d日本豆袋/木玩具etc



另外, 仲買咗d整飯团嘅工具 (响B&M買咗d BB飯餸! 方便整finger food)


一路無買過呢種飯兜~ 响B&M見到係呢隻rabbit, 就連環保袋都買埋!



2008年9月4日星期四

little DINO

媽mimi放工~ 陪恐龍仔玩~



恐龍仔識得自己上落佢部戰車喇! 不過其實好危險~會反車!


又捉住Melanie耳仔通屋走! 以及~ 打打Melanie! (poor little Melanie~)


2008年9月3日星期三

沒有需要智商測試, 您知道您的孩子有多聰明

copy from BK


1.  Level One



  • These children show interest in many things before they are even two years old - like colors, saying the numbers in order, and playing simple puzzles. 兩歲前已經對周圍嘅事物充滿興趣, 如: 顏色, 順序說數字, 甚至玩簡單嘅拼圖
  • Most of them are good talkers by age three, and by four, many print letters and numbers, recognize simple signs, their name, and know most of alphabet. 3歲已經說話流利, 4歲可以寫字母/數字, 認得簡單符號, 自己嘅名, 認識大部份嘅字母
  • By the time they are six years old, many read beginner books and type at the computer, and most read chapter books by age seven. 6歲開始睇書, 7歲能用電腦
  • It is not unusual to find six to eight Level One children in an average classroom, children who are nearly always a few steps ahead of what the teacher is teaching the whole class. 响第6-8班裡面, 唔難搵到呢類型嘅小朋友, 佢地成日快過其他同學仔~

2.        Level Two
•        These bright children love looking at books and being read to, even turning pages without ripping them, by 15 months. Some shout out the name of familiar stores as you drive past. 好鍾意睇書, 認字
•        Many of these children know lots of letters by 18 months and colors by 20 months, and between ages three and four, they count small groups of objects, print some letters and numbers, and they very likely drive their parents crazy with all their questions. 18個月已經認到好多字母, 20個月連顏色都得, 3-4歲能數物件, 寫字母/數字, 問好多問題
•        They’ll sit for what seems like hours as you read advanced level books, especially fiction and fantasy, to them, but they require a bit less of your time by age six, because most of them read for pleasure and information on their own by then. 6歲已經有能力自己睇書
•        Level Two children can find only one or two others in their classroom who are as advanced as they are, which starts to make it hard to find good friends. 一班裡面可能得1-2個level2, 佢地好難搵朋友~


 


3.        Level Three
•        They’re born wide-eyed and alert, looking around the room, reacting to noises, voices, faces. 對周圍好敏感
•        They know what adults are telling or asking them by six months. You say a toy, pet, or another person, and they will look for it. 6個月已經明白大人講乜


•        Everything Level Two children do by 15 months, these kids do by 10 to 12 months, and they can get family members to do what they want before they are actually talking. level2 15個月做到嘅, 佢地10個月已經做到! 就算未識得講, 已經可以令大人知道佢地想要乜
•        By two years, many like 35+ piece puzzles, memorize favorite books, and know the entire alphabet – in or out of order!  2歲可以玩到35+塊嘅拼圖, 識得所有字母(無論順序與否)
•        By three years old, they talk constantly, and skip count, count backwards, and do simple adding and subtracting because they like to. They love to print letters and numbers, too. 3歲能加/減數, 愛寫字母/數字
•        They ask you to start easy readers before five years, and many figure out how to multiply. Divide, and do some fractions by six years. 5-6歲會叫大人說故事書, 做乘除數
•        Most of these children are a full two to five years beyond grade level by age six and find school too slow. 6歲時已經比其他人快2-5年, 會覺得學校教得慢
•        There are one or two Level Three children in every 100 in the average school.  They are rarely in the same elementary class and can feel very, very lonely. level3嘅小朋友, 約100個人裡面有1-2個

 


4.        Level Four
•        Level Four babies love books, someone to read them, and pay attention within a few months of their birth. 剛出世幾個月已經好鍾意書
•        They are ahead of Level Three children by another 2 to 5 months while less than two years old.  比level3快2-5個
•        They have extensive, complex speaking by two years, and their vocabularies are huge! 2歲已經識很多生字, 能說complex 句子
•        Most of them read easy readers by 3½ to 4½ years, and then read for information and pleasure by age five, with comprehension for youth and adult level books at about 6 - 6½ years. 3-4歲能讀兒童故事書, 5歲能讀少年書, 6歲多能讀大人書
•        There are about one per 200 children in the average school. Without special arrangements, they can feel very different from their typical classmates. 約每200人有一level4

 


5.        Level Five
•        Level Fives have talents in every possible area. Everything is sooner and more intense than others Levels.
•        They have favorite TV shows before 6 – 8 months, pick out letters and numbers by 10-14 months, and enjoy shape sorters before 11 months.
•        They print letters, numbers, words, and their names between 16 – 24 months, and often use anything that is available to form these shapes and figures.
•        They show ability with 35+ piece puzzles by less than 15 months and interest in complex mazes before they are three.
•        Musical, dramatic, and artistic aptitudes usually start showing by 18 months.
•        Most speak with adult-level complexity by age two.
•        At two and three-years-old they ask about how things work, and science – particularly biological and life and death questions – emerge.
•        They understand math concepts and basic math functions before age four.
•        They can play card and board games ages 12 and up by age 3½ to 4.
•        They have high interest in pure facts, almanacs, and dictionaries by age 3½.
•        Most read any level of book by 4¼ to five years.
•        They read six or more years beyond grade level with comprehension by six years and usually hit 12th grade level by age 7 or 8.
•        We know they occur more often than once in a million and regular grade school does not work for them. Levels Three through Five score similarly on ability tests—very high.

Once you have a sense of your children’s abilities, you can provide them with more activities and experiences that build on these strengths and take advantage of their talents. Parents who have more than one child may notice that each child seems to have different interests and talents even when we encourage them equally. This is because we don’t cause our children’s abilities; we can only recognize and nurture them. To do less is truly depriving them of chances to do what they are good at and what they enjoy. To do less for our children probably chips away at their potential, too, for how can we get good at the things we don’t get to practice? There are more potential geniuses – children who are remarkably intellectually different from their same-age classmates – than most people believe, and your child may well be one of
them. 一旦發現到佢嘅能力, 你應該俾更多唔活動/經驗佢地. 如果家長有多過一個嘅小朋友的話,會好易發現每個孩子嘅能力. 我地應該確應並培育呢d能力, 而唔應該唔理, 咁樣會剝奪佢地對事物嘅興趣, 我地應該將呢d能力多加訓練~

2008年9月2日星期二

What's the sound of~~

今朝~ 工人姨姨响媽mimi面前問恐龍仔:


What's the sound of CAT? 



恐龍仔:Meow~


What's the sound of DOG? 



恐龍仔: Woh~


What's the sound of COW?



恐龍仔:Mooo~


What's the sound of sheep? 



恐龍仔:Baaah~


 



小朋友~ 容乜易俾你笑死呀!


 


其實~ 最近發現, 恐龍仔真係好叻! 學嘢好快~ 兩日之間, 由1to 3到今朝1 to 10都讀到! 自己又數數吓咁!


因為兩個星期無探婆婆, 於是同婆婆傾開電話, 講吓恐龍仔嘅近況~


婆婆話: 小心d教呢個仔呀! 佢好聰明! 公公成日同人講佢個孫好叻仔呀!!!


恐龍媽聽咗, 有d驚~ 驚自己知得唔多, 浪費咗恐龍仔嘅學習黃金時間! 驚揀咗間太輕鬆太淺嘅學校, 恐龍仔會失去學習嘅興趣~


其實, 最近同恐龍爸溝通過: 我地會盡量俾Quality time 恐龍仔, 希望佢有個輕鬆愉快又有趣嘅學習環境! 盡量多d stimulate~ 而唔係要d 好貴但係坐响屋企嘅教材!


另外~ 就係堅持唔發脾氣, 唔鬧仔喇! 我地可以好proud咁講, 恐龍仔响精神良好(夠瞓)嘅情況吓, 係唔會發脾氣架! 唔係佢唔會表達不滿或者唔鍾意, 而係佢好快會俾我地成功咁轉移到目標! 佢有能力delay自己對某d事物嘅吸引力, 即有耐性 or 耐力! (睇住佢想攞又因為聽話唔攞, 個樣好好笑架!)


咁~ 係咪好特別呢? 有人話俾恐龍媽聽~係! 好多小朋友仲未做到! 


但係恐龍爸媽就諗: 呢半年我地花嘅心機係方向正確嘅! 可以繼續落去~


 


剪報: 產 前 檢 查 不 可 忽 視

新 生 命 的 誕 生 為 父 母 帶 來 無 限 喜 悅 , 而 產 前 檢 查 對 母 嬰 也 是 不 可 忽 視 的 一 環 , 尤 其 孕 婦 易 患 妊 娠 高 血 壓 , 患 病 初 期 完 全 沒 有 病 徵 , 必 須 靠 量 血 壓 、 驗 血 , 以 及 檢 驗 小 便 中 的 蛋 白 水 平 診 斷 , 繼 而 對 症 下 藥 , 否 則 不 但 有 機 會 危 害 孕 婦 的 生 命 , 更 會 胎 兒 不 保 。




孕 婦 定 期 監 察 血 壓


妊 娠 高 血 壓 是 孕 婦 在 懷 孕 時 極 容 易 忽 略 的 一 種 病 患 , 因 患 病 初 期 沒 有 明 顯 症 狀 , 至 病 情 惡 化 , 孕 婦 會 有 眼 花 及 嘔 吐 等 不 適 , 此 時 病 情 已 十 分 嚴 重 , 孕 婦 隨 時 會 出 現 抽 筋 , 甚 至 爆 血 管 等 併 發 症 ; 而 胎 兒 因 發 育 不 良 及 缺 氧 , 更 有 可 能 胎 死 腹 中 。 正 所 謂 預 防 勝 於 治 療 , 故 孕 婦 在 懷 孕 初 期 便 應 開 始 定 期 監 察 血 壓 水 平 。
瑪 麗 醫 院 在 05 年 跟 進 200 多 名 孕 婦 中 , 當 中 近 6% 人 血 壓 過 高 。 本 身 患 有 高 血 壓 或 高 齡 產 婦 患 妊 娠 高 血 壓 風 險 , 會 較 一 般 產 婦 高 約 一 倍 ; 而 懷 有 多 胞 胎 的 產 婦 患 妊 娠 高 血 壓 風 險 更 會 高 出 兩 倍 。 由 於 不 少 準 媽 媽 也 非 常

重 產 前 檢 查 , 故 大 部 份 人 都 可 以 及 早 發 現 妊 娠 高 血 壓 情 況 。
此 外 , 進 行 產 前 檢 查 , 孕 婦 也 可 以 確 定 自 己 有 否 患 上 其 他 疾 病 , 例 如 梅 毒 、 愛 滋 病 、 地 中 海 貧 血 等 傳 染 病 或 遺 傳 病 , 部 份 傳 染 病 只 要 及 早 用 藥 , 便 能 控 制 病 情 , 避 免 感 染 給 胎 兒 。 同 時 父 母 在 產 前 檢 查 的 過 程 , 可 以 監 察 胎 兒 健 康 情 況 , 若 發 現 有 畸 胎 或 胎 兒 患 有 唐 氏 綜 合 症 等 , 可 盡 早 決 定 是 否 繼 續 懷 孕 或 作 適 當 處 理 。


2008年9月1日星期一

開學喇!

唔好誤會~ 係恐龍媽開學啫~


從此, 恐龍媽會响跟住落嚟嘅2-3年 (if something happen, may be 4 years) 內完成呢個人生目標~ 一個近4-5年來已經想做嘅嘢~~ 攞個Master Degree! 其實~ 恐龍爸已經攞咗MBA好幾年...


就好似年多前鼓勵另一位媽媽去完成未完成嘅學位一樣~ 繼續讀書, 到底為乜? 



當然, 部份係為自己, 依家周街都係大學生, 雖然我做緊呢個職位有無MSc都無所謂, 但係長遠要响呢行發展, 攞番個MSc係有好處架~ 可以去有政府認証嘅化驗室做Lab Director!


仲有一樣, 就係: 父母係小朋友嘅role model, 如果個學位因為種種原因未能完成, 你可以点同小朋友講呀? 當然, 無乜特別 (仲可以話: 都係因為你, 媽媽放棄咗~~~), 但係~ 如果因為發生咗咁多事, 中間停咗, 但係最後都完成到呢? 咁就好唔同喇!  (係呀~ 所以我点都會讀完, 慢慢讀! )


當然, 仲有一個好無聊嘅原因: 就係有d學校係睇家長背景嘅~


我希望响恐龍仔嘅成長過程裡面, 唔只見到成屋書, 佢好似爸媽一樣愛睇書, 仲有, 就係爸媽都仲有繼續讀書返學~ 學習係生活嘅一部份!


努力呀!!!